To quote House: People are idiots. I don't like what Wilson did, but I understand why he did it, I think it's entirely in line with how he's been presented over the last few seasons, and it doesn't make me love him any less as a character. People who are calling him evil now are not only wrong, they haven't been paying attention. It's the same thing we went through after the Grace revelation in "House vs. God."

But fandom needs to realize something. As the audience, we have a major advantage. We hear/see everyone's story

Excellent point, and all too easy to forget.